Boldly Go Solo

What makes you happier? Possessions or experiences?  

I came across a blog post by someone who decided to fulfill his dream of living on a sailboat. He wrote four lessons on what he had learned from his experience.

Two resonated with me and will for most solo travelers: 

1. Life is about the experiences you have, not the possessions you own.

I wonder about this sometimes. When I return from a vacation that
cost me, say, $1,500, I sometimes think, "That's over now. And what do
I have to show for it?"

What I mean is with $1,500, I could have had a
new computer with accessories that would last me years. Or a nice, new
piece of furniture. Or who knows what else?

But travel is in a separate category of spending. A must-have category. My
life would feel empty if I didn't go somewhere each year. I like
things, but I like travel experiences more.

Other people feel
differently. Some want to renovate their homes. Others want expensive
new "toys," whether cars or boats or, I don't know, race horses. And will put off traveling.

If you're reading travel blogs like this one, you're likely in the "prefer experiences" category. (And aren't in the market for a horse any time soon.)

2. Manage your expectations.

The blogger also says that there are downsides to anything. True
enough. I mainly write about the positives of solo travel. Probably
because I don't focus on the negatives. If I did, I might never go.

Because yes, I might end up dining
alone. No, I don't have anyone to watch my luggage while I make a quick
trip to the restroom. And, yes, there might be some lonely times here and
there.

But, as the blogger says, it's worth focusing on the positives. Because nothing is ever perfect.

Agreed.

Photo: Ellen Perlman. Felucca on the Nile